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日々の想い Vol.15

The way he looks vol.15












Hello, this is Ryojun Shionuma.

This time, I would like to talk about how to have an important heart that makes you grow.

For example, how would you feel if you were told, "This part of you is wrong"?

When someone says something that hurts your self esteem, you still get annoyed and avoid that person.

In my case, whenever I hear different opinions, I try to change my mind and say, "Oh, well, even if I don't mean it that way, there are ways of looking at things." And I start thinking about how I can get that person to understand me.

I think there are many people who are misunderstood. Then don't answer right away. Make no excuses. Once you take it in yourself and improve it, the inner growth speed will be faster.

I saw on TV the other day that it takes 100 years to make a 1 cm square of soil. So what about our life? From the perspective of the long time axis of this earth, life from the time you are born to the time you return to the other world is a very short time. In that short life, don't hold grudges against each other, but hold hands with people you have a connection with and create good memories together. If you think about why you can't do such a simple thing, I think you'll find the answer.

First of all, repeat the mental training of not being annoyed, and not blaming the other person.

Having said that, we can hardly do that. When I look back on my past, I don't think I was able to do it, but I think it's good for life to continue to study while everyone is gradually causing trouble for each other, and making various mistakes. I also think that it might be good.

Just try to make tomorrow a happier life than today.

It is important to always keep your mind up.

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